Monday, May 24, 2010

He could be charming in person. He also could have epic temper tantrums in person, but he didn't have them with outsiders present. Many outsiders were charmed by him.

Being charming is an other-oriented edit, a tool to get a reaction.

Make the other person feel good and cause them to believe the feeling good came from your personal wonderfulness, and you can get away with a lot, later and elsewhere.