A person who personifies a group that you are part of whether you want to be or not is focusing intently on you and saying, "I want you to make something new that I may not like at first but will like later when it helps our group and the big group a lot. Think. Sing til you blurt it out. Doodle til you draw it from reality as reality is now to be a better new reality." I saw a bumper sticker that said, "Midwives do it gently."